I'm going to use some fancy therapist lingo now, are you ready for it? 

 

 Suffering sucks! 

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There you have it, plain and simple. Suffering is universal and the expectation to not suffer can be more harmful than the realization that my spouse could be a major jerk at times. 

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We each have a perspective on our problems that contributes to our present relationship stress or conflict.  Learn how to see different perspectives as a blessing and not a curse and see how close you become.  Learn how 'others first thinking' can help you grow closer and decrease the frequency of conflict as you think the best about your spouse and not the worst.  

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If the problem is more severe, such as infidelity, abuse or neglect, we will walk through the process of healing, rebuilding trust and developing a stronger bond.